Romance and
Online Dating Scams

Overview

Romance and online dating scams are extremely common nowadays. It usually involves a fraudster feigning a romantic interest towards a victim, gaining their affection and trust, and then using that goodwill to get the victim to invest in fake investment opportunities. 

In China, this type of scam is known as the Pig-Butchering Scam (杀猪盘), the "killing pigs plate" or Sha Zhu Pan. The pig (aka the victim) is referred to as such because he or she ultimately gets slaughtered financially by the fraudsters.

If any of the scenarios described below sound familiar, it is very likely that you have been a victim of fraud and should take immediate action to avoid incurring additional losses. You can read our Guide on Cyber Fraud and Recovery in Hong Kong, which we hope will allow you to take the necessary steps before it is too late.

Initial Contact: Online Platforms

Fraudsters have also infiltrated dating applications (e.g., Tinder, Skout, Coffee Meets Bagel), social media (e.g., Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn), and online messaging platforms (e.g., WhatsApp, Line, WeChat), often posing as a young good-looking Chinese man or woman (“Fake Romantic Partner”) who is looking to meet successful like-minded professionals. The Fake Romantic Partner serves three purposes:

(a) identifying wealthy and influenceable potential victims;

(b) establishing trust; and

(c) misdirect, distract and influence the victim whenever necessary.

Invariably, the conversation between the Fake Romantic Partner and his (or her) victim will, at some point, revolve around stock trading and investment opportunities. He (or she) will often discuss his (or her) own success in investing and will  offer to either teach the victim how to invest or introduce him or her to a third party who is often presented as a so-called specialist (e.g., a person purporting to be a broker, an investment teacher, a wealthy relative). The fake brokerage firm is then introduced and efforts are made to get the victim to fund their account on the fake brokerage firm. 

If the victim has been referred to the specialist (who will then find various ways to defraud the victim), the Fake Romantic Partner will often continue to maintain an online relationship with the victim, with a view of encouraging him (or her) to invest larger sums of money and inform the fraudsters when the victim starts to suspect wrongdoing.

Grounded in Reality

Fraudsters have evolved and have become quite savvy. Their scams are extremely elaborate; often masquerading as a legitimate enterprise and in certain cases, they are almost indistinguishable from real companies that they are masquerading as.

The victims have, almost invariably, done some form of basic due diligence and the fraudsters have anticipated the steps taken by the victims. The fraudsters have become increasingly better at grounding themselves in reality; they use existing public information available on the web about an existing company which blurs the line between reality and fiction for the victims. The fraudsters are able to evade basic forms of due diligence and defraud their victims with impunity.

Fake Brokerage Firm

It is very common for fraudsters to create a fake website purporting to be the official website of an existing legitimate brokerage firm or being a local branch of the legitimate business. In some instances, we have seen fraudsters putting more consistent and elaborate branding than the real company that it was pretending to be. In one particular instance, the fake website ranked first on Google whereas the legitimate company was very difficult to find.

Fake Employees

This type of scam usually involves communications with some fake employees pretending to be working for the fake brokerage firm. They are often only communicate by email or via instant messaging applications. They are usually the person assisting the victim to be onboard onto the fake platform and will often tell the victim where to which external account the funds should be remitted to. These people are usually the fraudsters themselves. It is done to ensure that the victim feels safe and trusts the fake brokerage firm.

Fake Trading Platforms

Fraudsters often successfully onboard their victims using fake trading platforms which operate on hacked versions of the electronic trading platforms MetaTrader 4 (“MT4”) and MetaTrader 5 (“MT5”), developed by Metaquotes Software Corp. These hacked copies of the MT4 and MT5 platforms allow the fraudsters to simulate transactions and update the stock prices to mirror reality and give a false sense of confidence to the victims. The victims then emboldened by the gains they believe they have made on the fake trading platform, and then usually invest more money, trying to capitalise on the perceived opportunity.

mt4

Above is a screenshot of a typical MT4 fraudulent website. Beware if you see a website that resemble the above.

Method

The fraudsters will invariably induce the victim to pay his investment money into the bank account of one or several unknown third parties (individuals and companies) often inventing very dubious reasons as to why the payments need to be made that way. Early on, the fraudsters will often request that the victim invest a small amount of money to show how trustworthy their platform is. After great gains are observed by the victim, the fraudsters will then ask the victim to invest greater sums of money. Thereafter, whenever the victim would request to withdraw sums of money from his fake brokerage account, the fraudsters would invent reasons as to why it is not currently possible and would ask the victim to invest more to take advantage of the latest opportunities.

It usually ends with the victim realising that he has been defrauded and the fraudsters stopping all conversations once confronted with the truth.

Important Tips

Keep a Record of Everything

Anything connected to the scam, keep a record of it. The police often relies on the chat records, telephone number, the screenshots of the website, and documents sent during the course of the scam to build their case against the fraudsters.

Report to the Police only the Relevant Parts

Very often, we see police reports that have been filed by clients that are incomplete; they focus on all the wrong things that not particularly relevant to your case. We have prepared a guide on how to file an online report with the Hong Kong Police.

Time is of the Essence

It is important not to waste time and make sure that the scam is reported immediately to the relevant authorities.

Additional Questions

If you have additional questions which are not addressed here or wish to schedule an appointment to discuss your case, please contact us by telephone on +852 2176 4777 or by email at [email protected].

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